But I also have a young, active, intelligent dog who is very sensitive to her environment, and especially the way her sister reacts to the environment, so it's important to have a plan in place to deal with training frustration before it gets out of hand.
|Good idea, Bar, we should definitely make sure nobody's coming down the trail before posing for a picture.|
|Or we could both take opposite directions to patrol.|
When I feel my frustration rising, I try to remember the wise words of Vanilla Ice from "Ice Ice Baby": "Stop, Collaborate, and Listen."
There's no point in continuing training if you're frustrated. Rye picks up on frustration and she shuts down as soon as she senses me getting frustrated--and that means that she stops listening to me and does her own thing. That's not behavior we want to keep practicing, so the first step I take is to stop. That might be for 30 seconds or it might be for the rest of the day--it all depends on the situation.
Rye's become pretty reactive in certain circumstances on walks. There's one house right around the corner from us with a miniature pinscher who lounges in the window and barks at us as we walk by and Rye starts lunging towards the house and barking almost as soon as we turn the corner if I don't manage her. She melts down if she sees Jeep Wranglers, mail trucks, or UPS trucks. If a person walks by, looks at her, and says, "Hi, Puppy," she darts behind my legs and starts to bark at them.
If I'm being honest, it's exhausting. Most of the time, I can manage the min pin and the people with a lot of treats. The vehicles aren't always as easy to spot before she does. Sometimes even if I know there's a trigger coming up, we run out of treats, or gloves keeps me from doling out treats in a timely manner, or Barley wants a treat and almost trips me trying to get it from Rye. That's when frustration starts to rear its ugly head.
So we stop. If Rye's barking and lunging, I plant my feet and ask for a sit. Agility's made Rye really attuned to my motion, so the lack of motion is a signal to her that something's happening. That quick signal redirects her attention for a minute. If that doesn't work, we go home and try different exercise or we try another walk later in the day.
Even when I'm not frustrated, stopping is a good way to regroup. If you followed our first agility journey, you know that Rye went rogue on her second run. She was having fun, so I wasn't frustrated, but I did need to get her back on track so we could get off the course. After she started pouncing on me and playing with the cone, we took a quick time out with a down and regrouped before finishing the last few jumps.
Good training only happens when you and your dog are on the same page. After we've taken a few seconds to regroup, I have to figure out how to get us communicating with each other again. Sometimes that's reloading my hand with treats so that I can give her one after the other until we're past the trigger. Other times, it's changing direction and walking a different way to put space between us and the trigger. If we're working in a lower stress situation, we'll do some push ups with a down, sit, down or we'll do a couple hand touches to reconnect.
The most important part is listening to your dog. When Rye's behaving in a way that's frustrating to me, she's trying to tell me something. On walks, it might be that she's scared or she's excited or she's frustrated about not being able to get to something she wants. At the agility trial, she was telling me that she was wound up from being in her crate too long and she was excited about getting to do her favorite thing. When she's getting into everything at home while I'm trying to grade papers, she's telling me she's bored. She's not being naughty just for fun. She's always telling me that she needs something: more space, more mental exercise, more attention. Most of the time, she's telling me that she needs more training. Barley got 6 years of solo training to work on her reactivity. I have to remember that Rye doesn't know everything Barley knows and a lot of the time she's telling me she's confused and she needs more practice.
And when we get in good training sessions, I have two tired dogs and having two tired dogs means that I don't get frustrated.
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